To do, or not to do. That is my choice.

I've just got a certificate.


It is not a national license,

it is just a proof that I finished a course 

to be a Kokoroya Reset Counseling Master.


It doesn't guarantee that I can get good salary,

or

It doesn't proof that I am a good counselor.


However, it means a lot to me

because it is a proof that I spent 7 months 

to find out what I really want to do, 

or what I really want to be.


During the 7 months,

Everything I did was based on my decision.

I didn't need to smile when I didn't want to.

I didn't give any advice to anyone who seemed to be in trouble.

Even when people appealed that they were sad, 

I didn't say anything because I didn't want to.


I didn't make anyone happy when I didn't want to.


It was a huge experiment for me.


As a result, I noticed Everyone is OK with it.


I mean,

I don't need to be kind, or supportive as my parents said.

I don't need to help others as my teachers said.

I don't need to be nice when I don't want to be.


No one hated me.


I don't have to be kind.

I don't need to be nice.

I am OK to be what I am.



Everyone is OK to be what he/she is.




キラキラの種~seeds to sparkle~

Each of us has seeds to sparkle, but many of us don't know what make them sparkle. This is a blog of a woman who wants to know how people can sparkle in their lives, including herself.